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Revenge Porn: What To Do When Your Privacy Is Violated
Intimate images should always remain private. When they’re shared — or even threatened to be shared — without consent, the emotional and psychological harm can be overwhelming. This form of digital abuse, often called revenge porn or image-based abuse, is illegal in Australia and many countries worldwide.
This guide provides clear, compassionate advice on how to respond, what your rights are, and where to get real help.
Understanding Image-Based Abuse
Image-based abuse includes:
- Sharing intimate photos or videos without permission
- Threatening to release intimate content
- Using AI to create fake sexual images (deepfakes)
- Uploading intimate content to porn sites, social media, or group chats
- Screenshots or recordings shared without consent
The Emotional Impact: Why It Hurts So Deeply
Many victim-survivors experience:
Shame or embarrassment
Fear about reputation or job security
Anxiety, hypervigilance, or panic
Difficulty sleeping or concentrating
Isolation from friends or relationships
Depression or hopelessness
These responses are normal trauma reactions. Your brain is trying to protect you after a severe breach of trust.
Step 1: Prioritise Your Immediate Safety
If you feel unsafe, call:
000 (Australia) for emergencies
1800RESPECT for confidential safety planning
If the threat is from a partner or ex-partner, it may also be part of coercive control, which is increasingly recognised in Australian law.
Step 2: Preserve Evidence
Before reporting or deleting anything:
Take screenshots (including usernames and dates)
Copy URLs
Save threatening messages
Record times and dates
Store copies securely (locked folder or encrypted cloud)
This is useful for eSafety, platform reports, or police.
Step 3: Report and Remove the Content
✔ eSafety Commissioner (Australia)
The most effective first step.
They can issue removal notices and help get intimate content taken down quickly.
👉 esafety.gov.au/report/image-based-abuse
✔ Report it on each platform
Most sites have specific tools for non-consensual intimate content:
Facebook/Instagram
TikTok
Snapchat
Reddit
Pornographic sites
Cloud services
Messaging apps
Search for “report”, “privacy violation”, or “intimate image abuse”.
✔ Involve Police (Optional but Available)
In every Australian state and territory, it is a criminal offence to:
Share intimate images without consent
Threaten to share intimate images
Use digital services to harass, menace, or offend
Police can also issue safety or intervention orders.
Step 4: Know Your Legal Rights
In Australia:
All states criminalise image-based abuse
You do not need to prove malicious intent
Even threats to share content are illegal
eSafety can compel platforms and individuals to remove content
You may pursue civil claims for damages
Globally:
Many countries recognise this as a cybercrime, privacy violation, or gender-based violence issue.
Step 5: Support Your Mental Health
Image-based abuse is an emotional trauma.
Help is available through:
Lifeline – 13 11 14
Beyond Blue – 1300 22 4636
1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732
Headspace (youth mental health)
Local psychologists specialising in trauma, online harm, and abuse
Processing this with a professional can help reduce anxiety, rebuild confidence, and restore your sense of safety.
Step 6: Prevent Further Digital Harm
While the responsibility is never on you, these steps can provide added safety:
Use strong passwords and 2FA
Avoid storing sensitive content in cloud apps
Periodically review privacy settings
Use encrypted messaging (Signal, WhatsApp)
Consider dark-web monitoring services
The caring arm of Bizdify, dedicated to helping individuals and communities navigate online harm with empathy, expertise, and hope.
Because behind every profile is a person who deserves to be heard, respected, and protected.